Just as there are many ways someone can react when they get to a different country, there are also lots of methods by which someone can respond when they feel unworthy. In the same way that moving to a different country can have a big effect on someone, feeling unworthy can have an even bigger effect on them.
It would be more accurate to state that it not just a feeling, as it will almost certainly be something that has permeated their whole being. To see it as only a feeling would create the impression that it is something which can just be ignored and have no effect whosever.
Because of how powerful their inner experience of being worthless will be, they can react in one of two ways. What they can do is embrace how they feel and let this experience to directly influence their life.
On the flip side, they can end up disconnecting from what’s occurring within them, letting it affect them in a more indirect way. Therefore, no matter whether they opt for the first or the second option, what’s taking place inside them will still impact their life.
If someone goes for the first option and generally embraces this feeling, they may end up spending lots of time feeling low.
What they are also going to have is a strong inner critic which lays into them throughout the day. But, while this will be occurring within them, one could believe that just about everyone else is also putting them down.
Thus, even if one is in the business of someone who’s not critical, they might still think that this person is judging their every move.
As a result of what is occurring within them, they can believe that they deserve to be treated this way. An outside observer could wonder why they put up with this, yet what’s taking place externally will simply mirror back what is taking place within them.
This can enable them to experience a fair amount of good feelings.
Unlike the individual above, their inner critic will typically end up being directed outwards, making them come across as highly judgemental. When this happens, it will stop them from having to be on the receiving end of its abuse.
A Sense of Superiority
So, regardless of how they live their life or what they have achieved, they will be above most people. This inflated sense of their own value and importance will help them to maintain their true view of themselves at bay.
There’ll be people that are repelled by them, whilst there will be others that are drawn to them. If one surrounds themselves with those that have a similar character, their opinions will make it easier for them to continue to behave this way.
Thanks to these causes, an individual can make out that they’re a lot more virtuous than anyone else.
Not only will this be a way for them seem great, it will also be a means for them to release some of their aggression. If they did not do this, it would end up being directed towards them through their inner critic, with this having a negative impact on mental and emotional wellbeing.
But, as they will be criticising people who are not living in the’right’ way, they will most likely be in a position to abuse people without getting into trouble. It is then not that they are behaving in an abusive manner; it is that they are criticising behavior that is’incorrect’.
A Couple of Areas
This kind of behaviour can be understood in the political realm, with their being folks on either side of the spectrum who are on their high horse, so to speak. There are the men and women who do not eat meat that are also self-righteous, with just about every opportunity to inform everyone how this makes them better than cats.
All the time that somebody like this can maintain the view that they’re better than others, it is going to let them keep their authentic view of themselves at bay. In the modern world, there are plenty of causes out there for somebody to identify with, and social websites will offer them a platform to tell the world how virtuous they are.
Along with feeling worthless, someone such as this is very likely to be carrying a lot of shame. What they do will be a way of them to maintain this part of themselves and, if they were to stop acting in this manner, this shame would probably come up to the surface.
If a person can relate to this, and they would like to change their life, they may need to reach out for outside support. This can be provided by the aid of a therapist or a healer.